Right after I came back from my family reunion, Andy and I had the opportunity to go to Trek with our Stake as a Ma and Pa for our ward. We had 8 "kids" (3 boys, 5 girls), and Connie was kind enough (or crazy enough?) to stay at our house to watch our real kids while we were gone. This was the same Trek that I had the opportunity to go on as a youth, (which I realized was SEVENTEEN years ago...yikes, I'm getting old...), so I was super excited for the chance to go back. I remembered it being a really amazing experience. Andy didn't go when we were youth (he chose to stay home and work instead), so this was his first opportunity to go.
I'm not going to lie, without these two sons (above), our family would have perished in the wilderness. It was HARD work to keep that handcart moving, and there were a LOT of hills. These boys pulled our handcart for the majority of the time, and we seriously would not have made it without them. Our girls put in a really great effort as well, but three of them were 12-year-old Beehives, and that handcart was SUPER HEAVY. I'm just glad all our kids were willing to do their share and take turns with it when they were needed. Some of the hills were so steep we had to turn our handcart around backwards, attach ropes to it, and have everyone in the family help lower it down. It was really hard work. My two big toenails are both purple from being smashed up into the top of my shoes on those hills, and all our legs got so sore it almost wasn't worth the effort to sit down because it hurt the thighs so bad. Our "family" talked a lot about how lucky we are - only walking 5-8 miles per day instead of 15-20 like the Pioneers did; not having small children to care for; and having huge amounts of super yummy food waiting for us at camp instead of being starving and having to prepare our own stuff; having warm sleeping gear, etc. It really is a humbling experience to get out there and get just a tiny taste of what they went through. We walked 21 miles in 3 days, and we knew how far we were going. Often the Pioneers didn't know how far, how long, or when or where they would stop. I've often joked that I would have died if I was a Pioneer (when I'm cold, mostly), and this just solidifies how strong they really were. I literally don't know how ANY of them survived. I only hope that I can someday have the kind of faith they had.
After one of the big hills where a rope was needed, we somehow got our rope stuck in our wheel. It ended up having to be cut to get it out, so after that we had to borrow ropes from other handcarts when those hills came up, and then we had to send one of our sons to run back up the hill and give it back to the family who loaned it to us so that they could use it coming down.
This photo (below) is of everyone in our ward:
And this one is just our family:
At the beginning of the last day they had a women's pull, (to show us what it was like when the men were gone for the Mormon Battlion). Holy. Cow. It was uphill, and it was HARD. We gave one of our girls to another family in our ward for this because they only had 4 including their Ma, and we had 6. We figured 5 and 5 would be more fair. It took all our effort to get up that hill! It made us appreciate our boys even more when they re-joined us!
These are the three sets of Mas and Pas from our ward:









